Comments on: Jared Lee Loughner http://www.deliberatelyconsidered.com/2011/01/jared-lee-loughner/ Informed reflection on the events of the day Wed, 15 Jul 2015 17:00:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.4.23 By: Vivian http://www.deliberatelyconsidered.com/2011/01/jared-lee-loughner/comment-page-1/#comment-4994 Wed, 19 Jan 2011 17:44:04 +0000 http://www.deliberatelyconsidered.com/?p=1790#comment-4994 Amen to Maureen’s comments. My heart bleeds for this young man and his family as much as it does for the victims and their families. Everyone deserves a village of loving support, or the entire community suffers the result. Not enough funding for mental health results in more and more tragedies like this.

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By: Maureen http://www.deliberatelyconsidered.com/2011/01/jared-lee-loughner/comment-page-1/#comment-4813 Thu, 13 Jan 2011 14:39:47 +0000 http://www.deliberatelyconsidered.com/?p=1790#comment-4813 Loughner’s crime shocks our conscience but I feel for this young man in one particularly sad way that is much different from the type of deep sadness we feel for the victims he maimed and killed. I am mindful of Hillary Clinton’s book, It Takes a Village. It takes a village composed of us various actors to help one another in myriad ways, small and large, as we transition from childhood to adulthood, as we transition between different stages of our lives, and most particularly when early and emerging signs about others are so obvious.

Our village failed this young man, including the role models (teachers, professors, Scout leaders, fellow classmates, etc.), authority figures (campus leaders, campus police, local police), neighbors, family, friends, co-workers, mental health professionals, community leaders, and a host of others who move in and out of the boundaries of peoples’ lives from time to time, including our own.

Our culture and our society failed this young man. The sign posts were all there and more obvious over time, i.e., a lonely young man with a troubled home life who could not get those around him to listen and hear, however plaintive his disordered thoughts and cries were. So, he turned to social media to express himself and his alarming messages, and also to warn us. Yet, incredibly, we still overlooked and ignored him. If anything is clear in this case about Loughner, it is that the village failed him, and failed him miserably. There is nothing new here – we did the same thing with the VA Tech student shooter. We’ve seen this over and over again in our gun crazed society, our society that is so techno-device-centric driven that we insulate ourselves from one another in one way or another every day. Or, we simply turn a blind eye. The real underlying tragedy of this horrific crime is that the entire village ignored this young man.

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